On your dreams…

Dan Fitch
3 min readAug 15, 2023
Photo by Mike Bowman on Unsplash

When I was a kid, I dreamed of being a ball player. My parents house in Long Island, New York is kind of built into a hill. A ranch style house, the front of the house is level with the street while the back of the house has a porch that is easily a 4–5 foot drop from the backyard. Stairs on either side of the porch take you down to a patio or the grass.

This wall became the perfect backdrop for being a pitcher or being able to call strikes when playing a game. The wall had a wavy finish to it, like the cement had being troweled to not be flat.

This wall has been climbed on and pitched to, it has been jumped off of and hung from by me, my brother, and a 100 friends and cousins. My own children have scaled it and turned the wall into everything I made of it. It was the catcher when I was imagining to be Dennis Eckersley or it was the automatic catcher when someone was whipping a tennis ball or wiffle ball at me.

Photo by Laura Chouette on Unsplash

I’ve always admired people who knew what they were going to be from a young age. Whether it was prescient or revisionist, it’s admirable to be clear on what you want to do. I’d argue the majority of us have a much more circuitous path.

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Dan Fitch

Helping kids communicate is my day job. Wading through my thoughts to get them out here.